You’re born with a voice!

    I was in a supermarket with one of my lifeline brothers. We were there shopping for taco ingredients for dinner. So we ask one of the workers where the salsa was. He just points in a general direction. Without paying attention you wouldn’t even know if he was pointing or fist pumping with a finger extended. - I used to work in a deli and when people would point and not say anything. I developed a habit to just look ‘em in their eyes and into their souls. When they wonder why I’m not moving they realize that I have no idea what they want. - So I just stopped and looked him dead in the eye. He whispered upon exhale, “aisle one” I was not satisfied so I asked him to speak up. “Salsa on Aisle one” FINALLY! But when we went to look for it the salsa wasn’t even there.

    The point if that story is to show that you must use your voice otherwise no one will know your intentions! If you’re struggling with something, reach out to others to help you. If you just absolutely adore those shoes or that dress just go up to them and tell them how much you admire it! I’m sure they will love it and also you’ll make their day. How often do you get complimented by a stranger? When you do how do you feel about it? I know I love it when someone tells me I did a cool trick or love my eyebrows. I will remember and think about it for days! I tell my friends that happened and feel good reliving the moment in my head. You control what you do when you are living life. Eventually it will become your second nature and people will tend to want to be around you. Try something new and compliment someone on something you find eye catching!